Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Day One Hundred and Thirteen: Changing Bitter


I get bitter over things that are not my fault.
Today I came into the shop and had a cake order that was due in two hours that no one had told me about despite the fact that it usually takes twenty four hours to do a cake. It was a nightmare. But, I got it done. However, I was so irritated about everything with the cake that I was bitter the rest of my shift.
Sometimes I get really bitter about things that can’t be helped and mull them over in my mind until they become borderline obsessive. You know, like when someone cuts you off in traffic and you take personally and are in a bad mood the rest of the day.


I think the best way to fix this is to go back to what I did when I did as a kid: give everyone the benefit of the doubt. For all I know, there was a six year old girl with lymphoma on the other end of that cake order. It’s hard to be bitter when there might be a good reason for these things.
Who could deny a cake to a sick kid?

Challenge to my Readers:
Don’t be bitter about the stuff you can’t help. Try to think on the bright side and stay positive and it might make everything a little easier. Life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, but sometimes when you grin and bear it, it can be worth it. 

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